All I can comfort myself with is with the thought that no matter how much pain the little one endured whilst alive, she is now in a better and more peaceful place than any of us are.
I think being given babies like this can be so harrowing and trialing on parents, hence I hope through this tragedy they somehow find all the strength, relief, hope and ease to get them through this all.

@MM: Someone once said that becoming a mom means every time you hear of some pain or trial a child somewhere is experiencing, you will still somehow feel like it's your own. Before having my girly I used to be a real toughie in comparison to now. Now I have to only hear of such stories and I can cry buckets =((