I'm the last person on earth who will change even an iota of my personality and liking to please a man.Mind you my husband and I are opposites to say the least. And while we may compromise in minor matters,like where to eat out from or should we go to the beach or a mall,for the most part I will do my own thing and by husband will do his.
In my life if I have ever altered myself it has only been either self motivated reasons or for God's sake. Never to please men, parents, or anyone. Why should we when they are all human like us,prone to change and far from perfect? Never devalue yourself cos if you do then rest assured that's how others will treat you as well. You are who you are. Nuff said!