".......still doesn't give you the right to call make assumptions or interpert her views on her behalf ( coz according to you her views goes with the Non-Muslim therefore by default ......?..."

Let me give you an example:

Alcohol is haram in islam, but if someone drinks alcohol he doesnt become a non-muslim. However in this aspect his behaviour is similar to the behaviour of disbeleivers. Hope I am clear now...

Anyways I dont mean to offend anyone...even the comment which I made to mimi (the quotation) was in lighter vein...

However you calling me dishonest was what I did not like because I was not.