the people who are saying that they have measures to bypass the legal procedures are just trying to make money out of you. don't believe them. it may even be just a scam.

as they said, it is difficult for a single person to adopt a baby by himself. the ultimate aim for adoption is for a child to have a happy loving family and grow up to have as normal a childhood as possible. it is not a stray dog or cat you can simply pick up from the street just because you felt sorry for it. besides, if i was the social worker, i would be very suspicious on why a single man would want to adopt a child. what if you're a pedophile who wants to adopt a child and raise him/her to be a sex slave? and there's the more common human trafficking issue as well, which i believe this case would fall under should you decide to proceed because you are essentially paying people to take a child through illegal means.