OP: Dont play naive, the fact that you gave birth to a different place made you aware that what you have done is punishable by law here.

The fact the he had left you and "runaway" should be a big slap in your face that he is not interested in any responsibilities, so why do you have to run after him for financial support for?

You know the answer to your questions, you were just clouded by anger and jealousy that he had moved on and you did not.

Work hard and support your own child, stop fighting for that man, instead fight for your child's future... Work hard to give him/her a good one.

Good luck to you!