If he is offered 25-40% more net, then take it. I am not sure how much luck you will have getting a job here as your recent work experience is limited, you might get something but be prepared to earn a lot less than you hope, as there are a lot of experienced people in your profession wanting to come here. On the plus side you will be cheap for an employer as you will not be eligible for all other benefits as you already receive them from your husband, and you can save money from your housing allowance. You can get a comfortable villa for 10-12k QAR a month