It is a pity that an attempt to infuse life into the languishing groups and the ensuing discussion to awaken the sleeping / non active members by making it known to them how their non participation is affecting the groups inspite of best of efforts by the active and responsible managers who invest time & effort to provide a place to socialize has been taken down by some members cos of their personal grudges. For them, bottom line is if you did not behave properly or dont know how to behave while on a group, why would the group keep you on board. And even if somehow you get into, would you be welcome? What is point to keep on harping on the issue again and again.