Normally people are screaming out for an open meet. Smoke puts one on, and all I can see is people winging and wanting assurances. This is the first time I have ever seen people wanting guarantees of a good time in advance. If I was organising this I would have just thrown my hands up in the air by now and told them to go and find their own fun.

Smoke is doing all of the work, all these people have to do is turn up and eat/talk/swim/play. If I wasn't busy I would be there. Life is what you make it, if these people are this stiff online, I can't see them having a good time at a gathering anyway. So stay at home and have another lonely Friday why don't you.