Coming in on the tail end......

Hi I agree honesty is the best policy. Not everyone can be but I feel that when you lie you have to keep telling them to cover up the first. Question though....How is it possible to be in a room with someone and they make you feel like you are not there? Secondly, is it not because of our own insecurities that we allow people to treat us in ways that result in loneliness and sadness?