i find that she has all the right to tell the maid what to do when she is working for her. Would you be rude to your boss if he was rude to you? if she is not happy with the working conditions in the house, then she has all the time to leave. Respect is a given. This women can go and work where ever she likes and can find a good job, if she did not like this ladies house she should not have stayed all that time.