It depends on who said it for words to affect me.But in general it pays to watch what you say to another. For you it may mean nothing at that time but the consequences of those hurtful words can carry lifelong scars, breaking of ties and friendships, and even cause you to gain God's wrath.
And we Muslims know of the hadith that says : "A person may say a word that is pleasing to Allah and he may not think much of it, but God/Allah will, (because of that word), bestow his pleasure upon him on the Day of Judgment, and a person may say a word that is displeasing to Allah , and he may not think much of it, but Allah will have, (because of that word) his wrath and anger on him on the Day of Judgment."
Its always wise to either speak good or remain silent...anytime!
It depends on who said it for words to affect me.But in general it pays to watch what you say to another. For you it may mean nothing at that time but the consequences of those hurtful words can carry lifelong scars, breaking of ties and friendships, and even cause you to gain God's wrath.
And we Muslims know of the hadith that says : "A person may say a word that is pleasing to Allah and he may not think much of it, but God/Allah will, (because of that word), bestow his pleasure upon him on the Day of Judgment, and a person may say a word that is displeasing to Allah , and he may not think much of it, but Allah will have, (because of that word) his wrath and anger on him on the Day of Judgment."
Its always wise to either speak good or remain silent...anytime!