More or less like what we believe that trials will continue to befall us until we meet our Lord. You will never find anyone in complete ease without any troubles.Everyone will taste adversities from time to time regardless of who you are and who your with.And many times we might find ourselves tested with our loved ones.

What makes you better/worse is how you deal with the calamity. Do you wail and curse, and blame others or do you think to yourself "I can overcome this", be strong and do what it takes to assist yourself in getting over it.That is when you will realize that ultimately nobody in the heavens and earth can help you unless you help yourself.They can only try but its up to you to take action.