are you soliciting advice or just want to find someone to blame if something wrong came out.

We are in Qatar, you are there in UAE.  You already said about the difference including the maternity leave rules..  You should have considered those "predicaments" when you planned to make that angel of yours.

And another observation, you should go for the NURSERY thing since everytime somebody suggested a nanny, you have a negative reaction.

My advice, choose the lesser evil.