No matter what gender or race anyone is capable of infidelity but it takes two to tango so the problem should fall to the person who broke their vows. To the Op your husband is the problem, he will do it with anyone wherever he is as long as there's a chance because if he really loves you he should be the one avoiding such temptations if that's the case because sometimes men lies about being single. Now the question is will you accept your husband until he can change no matter how long it takes or you'll just give up on him? It's hard but it's reality...