and thats the difference between men and women, we like details we like to know everything, if we are telling a story or talking about something we want to know the weather, the color of the car, the outfit the hair style and everything else that has nothing to do with the story or the point of it.. while men just want the short cut, " or as I so oftern hear "get to the point of what you are trying to say, i dont care about what she was wearing or who she was with" still women are not that nice because we know each other I gues!