Suzan read what your write and you might have the answer to the question of why your maid ran away -

"Im sorry but no one I know allows her maid to go out alone for a night or something, we go out on Fridays as I say and she takes our son to play and she meets others maids there and they talk and talk and have fun as well.  If this is not counted as free time then its your problem


I suggest it is your problem and your poor maid's. Again - you never gave the poor woman a break, children are hard work and to be constantly at the beck and call of your employer/employers child is tantamount to slavery - last time I check that was outlawed here some time ago