Trust and respect should be from both, just a question for you guys why sould the wife be obedient first? Is there any reason?

Well yesterday I was hearing the news and there was an american institute which made a study and found that men get quickly angree compared to women, so if the wife is a smart she will deal properly with her husband when gets very angry whether this anger was on serious causes or trivial causes.

Also anger is one of your enemy right?