u know there is a story,,

once a guard was sitting on a big open door of a compound , people were coming and entering with out bothering him ,, one gentleman came and he asked him can i enter, guard said "NO" , he was surprised that every one is entering and he is not stoping them then why he said no to me , he asked the guard why u said no to me ,,  guard said ,,," they did not ask me u r the only one asking, so its on me to say yes or no,,,

so no need to ask any one just come and live u ll not face any problem,