While we're at it could we ask that the men RESPECT women (especially if they adhere to the dress code) no ogling, no inappropriate touching (as a recent poster experienced) etc.

You might be dressed correctly, that doesn't mean one is civilized (and that goes for the ladies in abayas and shaylas cutting the line at the supermarket). Fortunately, being female and appropriately dressed myself, I have no qualms in acquainting them as to where the end of the queue might be found.