Seriously though as a Muslima I follow the words of our Prophet in regards to love, and love for the sake of Allah.
Be it my husband,my child,my parents, siblings,friends,etc I love them all for Allah's sake, hence will never go through any extremes in my love for them but will Inshallah love them and do my duty towards them as I should, and in a way pleasing to my Lord.
It doesn't mean I don't cherish them and that I envision a life without them. Rather I pray God doesn't test me with having to lose the ones I love. But I just can't ever define my love as "mania" or "addiction" simply cos I understand that as a human-being my heart is prone to change,by God's will, and nothing on earth is eternal.