You say you are a guy who "says your prayers regularly" and then go on to say you wan't to cheat on your wife?wow..that's such a contradiction! Now how would you feel if you found out your wife was having a bf to add spice to her life? Do you really think its only men who appreciate the o'l no strings attached variety in life? Do unto others... If your life is so boring why not take up a non destructive hobby? better still talk to your wife and maybe you both could work something out. Remember as a father of two kids you have to be more responsible and set a good example to your lil ones. All the best!