Tinker, I think you have missed my point, I don't think anyone really minds posts that start with
"somewhere...." 'i wanna die..." "cant u seem im hurt, they are usually inocuous and not aimed at being unpleasant etc. But Again and neither GOJ or HGL were willing to clarify what purpose this thread served if not to 'have a go' and open up an offensive debate. Someone posting about a bad boyfriend or someone else's woes are perhaps slightly irrelevant but certainly not offensive - THIS IS NEITHER and not desgined to be anything but offensive. Sorry to repeat this but I have not had my answer from the first time I asked the question .