Thank you all so much, this is very helpful. It is like I told him, we dont live bad here, why I would come 10,000 miles to live bad??? It totally makes sense now, I see what you all are saying- there should be enough incentive. No one even offered to pay for us to come. I think he did not negotiate a good contract, but that really isn't my say. This would just be creating more, huge problems for me in my opinion, true enough, money problems would be just the beginning.