Britexpat - thank you for that. I do know you were joking. I do find your sense of humour one of the best here. They always put a smile on my face. :-)

As to the topic on hand I have had my say. I think it is time to bow out gracefully now. The men around here seem to know so much about the women. Maybe thay are exposed to such wallflower type women. And have yet to meet a woman who is not the stereotype they have known all their lives.