Pilgram, actually, I think it is mostly women who stand in they way of women. Look around on QL for example. How many times have you seen threads where women complain about a cheating husband/boyfriend? Only for another woman to come and tell her that she is not taking care of "her hubby" properly, as in massaging his feet, bringing him slippers, serving his fave food and being always available to his needs and wishes.
For me those women are the same as men saying "you deserve to be raped because you are wearing a mini skirt".

Now don't get me wrong, I may do all those things for my husband...but does the same for me.