Firstly, I'm not a weak woman like the ones in your world, so do NOT threaten me! Secondly, your definition of beating is wrong and thirdly, I'd prefer my husband to not put out than beat me, how can you say that's worse? You could never shut me up, I always win an argument! A "real" man would not hit or threaten a woman, a "real" man respects women and a "real" man protects his woman!