However I try not to blame them and simply accept their excuses. It makes life a lot easier. and besides lets face it for many life here in the ME is very fast paced, busy and unpredictable. I have many friends calling me over but I'm unable to accept their invites simply cos my husband is truly very busy working long hours. And then in the weekend we just don't feel like socializing preferring to chill at home after such long weeks! hence I understand the whole "I'm busy" bit...Best not to let it affect you too much. Inshallah just be sincere to your word.