Victoria, I was contemplating joining the get together since it was an open invitation, but after reading some comments above, I wonder what these meet ups are about? I don’t understand what you mean by no fooling around, no off limits, and if someone wants to go off-limits do it in private? Seems to me like these meet ups turn into illegitimate relationships. I guess I now understand some of the other topics being discussed, like adultery, Risk, etc. I guess it's all good preemtive information if people want to get involved like this. It's good to know that people research such topics and then the topics are put in practice!!