chocaholic, ok, I hear you. and yes, the market here is a bit different than in the West. But you know what, even though you are apprehensive about that now, as you are new, you will actually get used to it. Maybe even grow to like it to a certain degree. I know I have. But it has taken a little time.;)
And you will make friends soon, don't worry. Shoot me a PM if you like :)