specially as its my fav topic..well one of em. Anyways better late than never. I'm surprised that a Muslima like yourself Silvia speaks against older men marrying younger women and older women marrying younger men, when in Islam it was established in the sunnah the permissibility provided no one is oppressed and no laws are broken! Personally I used to be a woman who preferred marrying a man way older than me but Qadrallah Mashafa'l married one just three years older. While I have no regrets in my choice(thankfully my hubby is as matured as I wanted)I still see absolutely nothing wrong in such marriages. If tomorrow my dad or even mom wishes to marry younger people (they are divorced) then I will not only support them but be the best step daughter ever,Inshallah, to their respective partners! And if my husband wishes to take a second wife who's younger than me then well, Inshallah, I'll be an awesome co-wife to her.