Thanks for your post Alumnar. You have just reinforced my belief that one bad apple doesnt mean that the whole orchard is bad. I am good at ignoring ( you can ask me wife if you dont believe me ) but what took me by surprise was the Mod's action in deleting my posts even though i had mentioned nothing erotic and only had a compliment in it albeit a back handed one....anyway, looking at the bright side..i now know who the MOD is ;)