Tink, the only person to give you emotional security is yourself.
And as Oryx said, Prince charming is nothing more than a dangerous myth. Dangerous because girls want and wait for him.
Delusion...yes, a massive part of a woman's life when it comes to men. This is what divorces are born of.

I think a woman must look for a balanced package (lol), character, stability and last but not least, physical attraction.