now its me badmouthing who? Do you even know what badmouthing is? And excuse me, I am not using effing to you, I'm just citing that many those who use such word as an ordinary word. It's only now that I use it and I feel uncomfortable. You can label me as you want but the fact remains that "sour graping" is the norm of the day. If sour graping is badmouth to you, I don't know how will you rate the words used on me many times here!