joking aside.. I think both parties are reprehensible.. he was just paying for sex (for what seemed to him a regular "improved" order) and she is clearly a gold-digging b***h... it's a sad sort of relationship but to be honest there is nothing new in the arrangement.. it is centuries old ! marriage in lots of cultures (east and west) is little more than a transaction... call me a synic (happily married thank you) but c'est la vie!