Maybe What those ppl are missing is love and care in their life... Agreed we can't be the person to give them tender,loving care, even though they hurt us.. but in times like these, we just need to wish and pray that they find the necessary love and care in their life...

Ego rises because of insecurity.

An ideal world is, of course, where we all co-exist with each other. It may not be the most peaceful, but as long as we understand each other, I guess that's almost good enough.