Pikey, I think it's because you said you wanted a special friend that they deleted the thread. Remember, most of the MODS' first language isn't English and they may not fully grasp what you're getting at and not realise you were saying it tongue in cheek. I realise it was a joke but at the same time you're highlighting what goes on here, they just saw it as you trying to pick up a girl.

As s-isale has already stated, it's how you word it...

Don't be disheartened by this and stay and have some fun :-)