thanks st100281 .... and i think some of ppl here could understand here very well tht y its such a sensitive issue,,

and brit bro,, agreed tht intentions matter, not for decisions but for actions.... upon decisions , intentions are made, and upon intentions, actions are performed....

for muslims, its really a big big issue thts y its dealt so strictly, i hope and pray tht ppl in the WHOLE world can understand tht DIVORCE is not just another thing... :)