but using your own logic, you and your husbands jobs (or you emotionally supporting your husbands decision to work here in Qatar) are sustaining your employers, who in turn, are "sustaining corrupt family monarchies who deny their citizens and visitors basic human rights and freedoms".

Therefore the only logical option open to you is to leave.

This is the first time I have suggested that anyone should leave Qatar - but unfortunately this is the corner you have painted yourself into.