This is what I don't get...if this is true, why would you waste time adding a topic on a public forum instead of asking hubby straight out? If you're married, you must be able to communicate and not beat around the bush! People on a website like QL come from all over the world with lots of different ideas and views on relationships. They have no idea what your marriage is like nor do they know if hubby is likely to cheat. Talk to the man, it'll be alot quicker to get your answer! Rant over...