I Alhamdullilah don't feel this way.Maybe its cos I'm a mom and hence hardly go to the masjids but in my circle of friends everyones thrilled its Ramadan and we all enjoy helping one another. Mind you all of us are from different countries too. Majority of them are American and Arabs, yet the love and sisterhood we share,specially in Ramadan is unlike anything I've experienced anywhere else..Innalhamdullilah!