crazysignal, i definitely know how it is like to have kids. thats why a waman have to be PREPARED financially, emotionally, mentally, and all the lly's we can think about before having them. if she wants to share the `happiness` to her parents, and if she genuinely think that way, she would not HAVE written that she needs them to "leave her kid" with. i believe you express what you think when youre writing unconsciously, and evidently, the need for the parents to come over is for them to look after the kid, not to enjoy here.

i rest my case. give the `old` parents a break. ffs.

judi: i do not live a good life, but i am careful with how i `lead` my life. the basic idea is, give your parents a break. thats all. good luck.

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