and again, stop dumping your responsibility to your parents. you just said it: "The day care in Doha do not want to baby sit a 3 mnths baby besides some of them have so many children as they mostly are not reliable..
It is better and safer to have my baby left home with my parents Please help"

Even tho youre gonna hire a nanny, if your parents will be with you in one roof, they'd still feel obligated to look after your kid without you. And wait, they're OVER 65??? Why dont you fetch your other half to work here instead and look after your kid?? Bring your parents here for a holiday, not as back up nannies. wtf

Think again.