i am sure there are many people, even among your own nationality, who are trianed to take care of a special needs child. but finding such a person is an uphilll task. you can advertise here on QL or even in the local dailies asking if such a person is available or make enquiries among family and friends and extended friends too. Im sure you may have tried these options but there seems no other way from what i understand of your predicament. but yes if i do come accross anyone will post the info here for u.:-)...