rishimba, you are 100% right , most people do not want to know the truth. If the truth is told to them, even with the intent to help them get better, the person telling them the truth is called all kinds of ugly names and is ostracized.
Thing is, I don't care...I do tell the truth, no matter what.
I believe that , as I said before, only the truth can make us better people. I try...if they don't want to listen it is not my fault.