emphasize was given to the negative rather than the positive side.

So what do you suggest now, Olive? For jdylan to abandon now his gf? Are you making positive suggestion or opinion?

It's their life, what's wrong with yours? The guy did a good thing and personally, it's a good move.

And if anyone anticipate a bad result, just keep it for now and wait for the actual (bad) thing to happen (if you really think so). Do not generalize!