jdylan, I am personally angry with you, because you come up here, pretend yourself caring understanding person, you boast about paying her “fee”, and even accuse others of not doing the same to their girlfriends, who they slept with for few years..
have you even been taught what are right things to do, and what are wrong? If you had a clue about what is good and what is bad, you would never come up in here and start showing off your “heroism”..
Olive, I didn't read the entire thread (busy like crazy), but the idea itself is wrong.. like being with someone (no matter who is married and who isn't)for few years, and then to pay her, and the worst thing to present it as an achievement! he should hide illegal relationship with married woman, and he just displayed it to everyone's veiw, hoping we will encourage and praise him for his payment... jerk is jerk..