sometimes it difficult to give advices to a friend you need to listen to other story, it best just to listen to a friend who confides you about her problems and let her feel that you are there to listen. but saying things that will feed her mind to let her decide the worst. esp. in this case maybe gtims friend family life would at stake lukaret is right "Instead of adding more fire why dont you pour some water to kill that fire.. "

""churah mo feeling felingan""