Do the same thing even if you love him and not intending to cheat him. For example, tell one of your coworker or best friends, cousins or whoever. Let him drop you here and there and go late at night with your friends. Every time he asks you where have you been, tell him with my good friend X or with my workmate Y. Once he gets mad and interogate, ask him how about that filipina workmate? If you end your called best friend relationship with that girl, I will end mine with my best male friend.

Choose 10 years old younger boy and let him call you mama:)