to every story. But from what you have written it is clear that your husband needs to reprioritise. YOU are his priority. And your expectation to be treated as a priority is absolutely correct. Instead of taking her out for parties, he should be taking you, and if you are uncomfortable with the friendship he has then he should stop.

Try to email him. If you email him and tell him how you feel, then he has no option but to read and understand. If you confront him i guarentee he will become argumentative and defensive.

Express your feelings to him as eloquently as you have above. If he truly loves you then he will respond positively.

I wish you luck and really hope that he sees the light and puts you back in to his life as a priority.