Thanks to you guys for understanding me and explaining what I am trying to say., I am not obliged to answer any questions here but I will clarify some definitely. Here is some info about her routine and background.She is married with three children. She is a Muslim. Her husband is in Indonesia.She sends all her money to her family and asks for more all the time. I always give her extra money.She goes shopping with me once a week because I go once a week. She is allowed to go and visit her friends alone on Thursday and she meets with them at Villageo.(Go and meet her, She is the happiest of all of the maids around her). If you Compare her working hours to mine you all will laugh at me. I work 6.30 t0 3.00, 6 days. Break on fridays only. I made children's breakfast and packed lunches myself. She works 8.00-1.00 than go out in our compound's park and come back at 5.00. I come back home, cook food, serve the children and later husband. (Maid is still outside) She comes back at 5.00. (her fix time) makes tea for her and went to bed, comes out of the room at 7.00 serve dinner with me and at 9.00 she went to sleep. by that time no one can wake her up. She also goes shopping with her friends. Whenever she wants to go out I never say No. Do we all get this much freedom in our working environments???? Can you talk endless hours on mobile while working????can you say a straight NO to your Boss??? Do you cheat your employer??? Are you not being watched in your offices??I know there are hidden cameras in some offices to observe what employees are doing. Our employers are not going to tolerate this type of attitude even for a single day and I am tolerating this behavior since 5 months. I am suffering only because I am being generous with her. THIS IS MY MISTAKE. And guys please do not involve religion in this. People manipulate religion for their own sake..My maid is also a Muslim and knows that extra marital affairs are prohibited in all religions. One more thing,,I am not spying on her. I checked her mobile in front of her mentioning that I want to see who she talks to because I have the responsibility being her sponsor. Like I check my children's mobiles. Please Just don't assume things on your own. She is not the first maid I have.. I had another maid for 4 years. She was crying when she was leaving, she never wanted to go because Alhamdolilah I treated her like a family member. I never wanted to say these stupid things here but some of you provoked me to say.
This all may sound rubbish to people like Nic and AbuAmerican because you people are arguing for the sake of argument only.
Thanks to you guys for understanding me and explaining what I am trying to say., I am not obliged to answer any questions here but I will clarify some definitely. Here is some info about her routine and background.She is married with three children. She is a Muslim. Her husband is in Indonesia.She sends all her money to her family and asks for more all the time. I always give her extra money.She goes shopping with me once a week because I go once a week. She is allowed to go and visit her friends alone on Thursday and she meets with them at Villageo.(Go and meet her, She is the happiest of all of the maids around her). If you Compare her working hours to mine you all will laugh at me. I work 6.30 t0 3.00, 6 days. Break on fridays only. I made children's breakfast and packed lunches myself. She works 8.00-1.00 than go out in our compound's park and come back at 5.00. I come back home, cook food, serve the children and later husband. (Maid is still outside) She comes back at 5.00. (her fix time) makes tea for her and went to bed, comes out of the room at 7.00 serve dinner with me and at 9.00 she went to sleep. by that time no one can wake her up. She also goes shopping with her friends. Whenever she wants to go out I never say No. Do we all get this much freedom in our working environments???? Can you talk endless hours on mobile while working????can you say a straight NO to your Boss??? Do you cheat your employer??? Are you not being watched in your offices??I know there are hidden cameras in some offices to observe what employees are doing. Our employers are not going to tolerate this type of attitude even for a single day and I am tolerating this behavior since 5 months. I am suffering only because I am being generous with her. THIS IS MY MISTAKE. And guys please do not involve religion in this. People manipulate religion for their own sake..My maid is also a Muslim and knows that extra marital affairs are prohibited in all religions. One more thing,,I am not spying on her. I checked her mobile in front of her mentioning that I want to see who she talks to because I have the responsibility being her sponsor. Like I check my children's mobiles. Please Just don't assume things on your own. She is not the first maid I have.. I had another maid for 4 years. She was crying when she was leaving, she never wanted to go because Alhamdolilah I treated her like a family member. I never wanted to say these stupid things here but some of you provoked me to say.
This all may sound rubbish to people like Nic and AbuAmerican because you people are arguing for the sake of argument only.